20 UNSPOKEN RULES FOR MEN

20 UNSPOKEN RULES FOR MEN

By Aniekeme Finbarr ©️ 

1. Never shake a hand sitting down. Ke afo udoho mbungho 

2. Never insult the cooking when you are the guest.

3. Never pose with alcohol. Leave that for ndito ino 😃

4. Protect who is behind you, and respect who is beside you.

5. Never make the first offer in a negotiation. Except your partner insist

6. Don't take credit for work you didn't do.

7. Take blame, and give credit when due. That’s how real men roll

8. If you are not invited, don't go. Your name is not Udousoro

9. Always aim for the head.

10. Don't beg for a relationship, don’t marry out of sympathy 

11. Dress well no matter the occasion.

12. Always carry cash. Mbak ndok

13. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact.

14. Show restraint in expressing anger, no matter what. Being angry is a waste of energy.

15. Whether at a dinner, or a bar, avoid placing your phone on the dinner table.

16. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy. Nam mkpo nte owo adionghoke idem

17. Proper grammar will get you far in life. Leave the foul language for the less educated. Ku tang utuang 

18. Ask more than you answer.

19. You can tell a great deal about a person by their handshake, so make yours strong and firm. Look people in the eye while at it

20. Speak honestly. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

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